May 24, 2011

The Greatest Fairy Tale.

"It is a world of magic and mystery, of deep darkness and flickering starlight. It is a world where terrible things happen and wonderful things too. It is a world where goodness is pitted against evil, love against hate, order against chaos, in a great struggle where often it is hard to be sure who belongs to which side because appearances are endlessly deceptive. Yet for all its confusion and wildness, it is a world where the battle goes ultimately to the good, who live happily ever after, and where in the long run everybody, good and evil alike becomes known by His true name... That is the fairy tale of the Gospel with, of course, one crucial difference from all other fairy tales, which is that the claim made for it is that it is true, that it not only happened once upon a time but has kept on happening ever since and is happening still." - Frederick Buechner

We grew up believing in fairy tales. As little girls, we submerged ourselves into the lives of characters like Bell, Ariel, and Cinderella. We grew up believing that love conquers all, that good triumphs over evil, and that someday our prince would come to sweep us off our feet. As little boys, we saw what it was like to be a true man -- to rescue the endangered princesses, to battle the villains, to risk our lives for a greater good. Girls had the desire for affection. Boys had the desire for adventure. We grew up believing in fairy tales -- believing that one day we would get to experience one of our own. The truth is that there is a fairy tale out there for every one of us. The lie is that it can be found within the world's definitions of love and sacrifice. We engage in battle every day -- the battle between adhering to the world's standards or drowning ourselves in a love unlike any other.

We all have a yearning inside of us. It is a yearning for intimacy, beauty, and adventure. It is a yearning for a fairy tale kind of romance. It is a desire for a story so grand, that no one can touch its magnificence, its magic, its appeal. We desire the kind of story that others long to have -- the kind that is told for generations to come. From early on in our lives, we look for it. We look for it in our relationships, in our successes, in our personal image. We look to it in moving to the right places, in going on certain trips, in engaging with strangers. Life is a mystery we are constantly trying to solve. We open doors waiting for the fairy tale to greet us on the other side. With every disappointment, we open another door, certain that this will be the one we've been waiting for. We all have a yearning, but chances are we have been looking in the wrong places to find our fairy tale.

If love is about sacrifice and caring for another more than yourself, than I would ask what is the greatest sacrifice that can be given? The answer is simple: your life. And there is only One who gave His life for everyone.
God loved the world this way: He gave his only Son so that everyone who believes in him will not die but will have eternal life. There is no sacrifice greater than that. Which means, there is no love greater than that. It is a love that is given freely, without expecting anything in return. It is a love that never fades. It is a love that cannot be taken away. It is a love that conquers evil. It is a love that rescues us from darkness. It is a love that restores what has been lost. It is a perfect love that casts out all fear.

Does that sound like a fairy tale? It does to me, because it sounds too good to be true. And that's what fairy tales are made of right? Things we can't comprehend -- Magic. Power. Triumph. The difference between who God is and what all other fairy tales consist of is the Truth. Everything He is will always remain the same. Everything He promises will never be taken away. In this fairy tale, God is the storyteller, and He is writing the most beautiful of tales. And perhaps it is a bit of magic - we can't understand how it comes to be or comprehend why it exists, but we know its there. Because we see it, because we feel it, because it lives inside of us. God gives us all the things we've ever wanted.

He show us that love does conquer all -- His love conquers all. He triumphs over every evil. He rescues us every day. He brings us adventure. He equips us with the strength to battle the world. He gives us intimacy and comfort unlike any other. His love is greater than any other. When we call, He answers. When we fall, He picks us up. When we are weak, He is strong. He saves us - over and over and over again. He reassures us. He tells us that we are enough -- beautiful enough, strong enough, worthy of everything He wants to give us. His love is patient, and kind. It is not jealous, it is not boastful, it is not proud. His love is not rude or self-seeking. His love keeps no record of wrongs. His love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the Truth. His love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. His love never comes to an end. His love is yours if you want it.

There is a beautiful fairy tale waiting for you. It is your own to have - a beautiful song orchestrated just for you, sweeter than anything you have ever heard. It is a fairy tale that will fulfill your deepest desires. It is a fairy tale that will satisfy the longings of your heart. It will quench everything you need. It will satisfy every hunger. It will fill you with a joy you've never before known. If you let God love you, the way He wants to love you, you will find you will experience love in other places as well. When we are full of God's love for us we are able to love others the way He loves us. The fairy tale can transform every part of your life. God's fairy tale can change who you are. God's fairy tale can give you a story others will long to be a part of.

We all grew up believing in fairy tales. But somewhere along the way we lost the magic we used to believe in. We gave up hope. We let go of our deepest wishes. We compromised for love. We settled for a safe adventure. Just because we get older doesn't mean the magic has to fade. In reality, it is time to let the magic grow. It is time for the fairy tale to be reignited within us. It is time for God to take control of our lives. It is only then that we will see good at the work of His hands. It is only then that our lives will be wrecked with a love so beautiful we can hardly believe it to be true. It is only then that we will find we have everything we could ever need. It is only then that the world loses the battle. It is only then that we believe we are enough -- because God is more than enough for us. He wants to give each and every one of us a fairy tale romance -- where good always wins and love always grows.

7 comments:

Maria said...

Kari,

thank you so much for this post. i am at vulnerable point of my life right now. I am throwing heavy questions at the universe. questioning love, even doubting it. I've been craving for my own fairytale too. I forgot that actually i don't even have to ask someone to love me for who i am..because God is there. No matter what He will love me, unconditionally. It's always a happy ending with Him.

Thank you for reminding me this.

Thank you for your sincere advice, for the love and hugs when i needed it. Thank you for being a friend though we have yet to meet.

love,
Mary

Kari Ann said...

Mary,
You're right - it is always a happy ending with Him. Keep holding onto the Truth, girl. You were made for a beautiful life full of love.

These words a gift that God gave me to share. I am blessed to know He is using them for a greater purpose. I want to love as He loves -- my heart is for you although we have never met.

Have hope, friend.

Blasphemous Aesthete said...

Reading this post reminds me of a fairy tale, of Peter Pan,
for those who could believe and imagine, children, only they could go to neverland, where they'd never have to grow up, where magic existed.

God, and life, simply happen to be, for those who believe.

Cheers,
Blasphemous Aesthete

Blasphemous Aesthete said...

here is an excerpt from something related to that, from a movie:

Unlike Peter, I had to grow up.

But even as an adult, it feels good to return to Neverland now and again. Almost a decade ago, long before rent and utilities became a part of my vocabulary, I would pull a Strawberry Shortcake tee over my head, loosely tie my kwikwear pants around my waist, roll fluorescent candy bracelets up to my elbows, and head out to listen to some happy hardcore with like-minded partykids. We lived at 160 beats per minute dancing all night, "e-bonding" with friends and strangers, watching the sun rise, then doing it all again the next night.

In the past few years my candy bracelets have found a home in Tupperware at the bottom of my closet (I can't bring myself to throw them out) and the cartoon tees and kwikwear have been given away. (Who am I kidding? No one I know now wants that clothing--I actually did throw those out).

But just like Wendy could never completely forget Peter, I can never completely leave the hardcore scene, especially the music. So once a year, I go back to where I first found Neverland, a massive that's been coming back for nine years now, Whistle.

Kari Ann said...

Peter Pan says that "To die would be an awfully big adventure." And how true for those who believe -- the fairy tale continues long after your last breath. Thanks for that connection. :) I love Peter Pan.

Kat said...

Love that quote... where is it from?

This post was just beautiful. Full of truths that we forget far too often. Thank you for sharing your heart... praying for you sister, update soon one your summer plans!!

Kari Ann said...

Kat,
The quote was in a book I'm reading called "The Sacred Romance -- Drawing Closer to the Heart of God" by Brent Curtis and John Eldredge so I'm not sure where it is originally from... sorry!

Thank you for your prayers and your encouragement. I appreciate it more than you know. Blessings to you sister-in-Christ. :)